Justice is finally served

Don't get me wrong I have nothing but love and respect for Jub jub but i feel that there was no need for his case to be dragged on for so long. His irresponsible actions have lead to the deaths of young Innocent school children who didn't deserve to die the way they did, some of the children that were involved in the accident are left crippled and with no hope since their lives are no longer going to be the same. I am happy with the fact that they were denied bail, this is an example that is long over due to show South African artists that even though they are famous and rich but they are not invincible when is comes to the laws of the country. Jub jub should have been leading by example but instead he let all his fans and followers down and for that i feel he should be punished.

Its to bad that such talent is now going to waste for such stupid reasons. Everyone should learn that your actions will always predict your future. the best thing to do is to think before doing anything, thinking has never killed anyone before, its completely harmless. Now i am just waiting on the final verdict, i hope it is going to be fair on the families that have been suffering such great pain for the last two years. They deserve to finally make peace with what has happened.

Sugar daddy

I was shocked earlier this week when talking to an old friend who i haven't seen in over a year. While doing some catching up she mentioned how happy she was with the new man in her life, according to her this new man does everything for her financially. She has always been attracted to older men but i thought it was a stage that was going to pass. This man of hers is  56 and shes only 22, shouldn't this be considered illegal.

Its shocking that in this day and age with all the diseases we have you still get girls who have their whole lives ahead of them still talking about sugar daddies. I mean what good can come from an old man who's old enough to be your grandfather but still thinks it's ok for him to buying stuff for you in return for sex. This is just my opinion and i think it is just a sick individual who came do such.

To the ladies, it is about time we start doing things for ourselves and stop depending on other people to give us the good life that we should be working for. Nothing comes easy and nothing that comes easy is ever good, work for what you want and you'll have no regrets at the end of the day.

LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE BETTER...

Doing good for the community

I have a huge passion for Non governmental Organisations that work with children but this particular NGO has really touched my heart because they are working with a situation that not a lot of people would want to work with.

Nsusumeto Community Development is a Non Governmental Organisation that was founded by Imelda Nozipho Tsosoane, a retired nurse from the east rand in Kempton Park. This organisation does home based care, taking care of all the terminally ill patience who can not get themselves to their local clinics to get their treatment for their chronic diseases. Nsusumeto is a group that consists of retired and registered nurses and some young people who are volunteers in the organisation. The group members meet every morning and go to these patients houses to bath, feed and give them their treatment and because some of the patients can not go to clinics because of their ill health Imelda and the other members do the necessary tests on the patients.

The volunteers come together once a week to come up with new ideas for their outreach programs. The money for their outreach programs come form the founders pocket which sometimes is not enough to host the whole function. I t costs the founder more than she can afford as she is retired and is dependant on her pension fund, but because she is passionate about the cause that she is running she does not complain to much about it.

Not everyone can do what Imelda is doing for the people in her community, especially knowing that you wont be getting anything in return. People like Imelda have to be recognised by the government and rewarded for all their hard work and dedication.

Cwele starts her 20 year jail term

Cwele is the name that everyone is talking about, since she handed herself over to the police and charged for being the master mind behind drug trafficking and using people to transport the drugs to other countries. Goes to show that crime does not pay, she is now going to miss out on the things that will be happening in her children's lives. By the time she comes out she may even be a grandmother, which means she will also miss out on her grandchildrens births. Sad but true...

Now this is a rather serious topic but it got me thinking about what i would do if i knew that i was going to be in prison for 20 years and only had a number of three days as a free women. First thing is first i would spend as much time with my loved ones, go on a shopping spree with my loved ones, have as much me time as possible, spend the very last day in my bed eating my favourite food and having my favourite drinks with a special somebody. Now this is just to name a few.

Euthanasia

Today in class we discussed a rather interesting but touching topic, which is Euthanasia. Euthanasia also know as "mercy killing" is a way of painlessly ending a persons life with the "human" motive of ending ones suffering.

Now i have a huge problem with us human beings playing the role of God, isn't it enough that scientist are coming up with different ways of proving that they can create what God has created now people want to decide when a person should die. As a christian i believe that everything has it's time and place, therefore each and everyone of us has a time that has been allocated not by scientists, doctors or our families but by the Lord. So who are we to make those kinds of decisions for people.

I am 100% percent against it and if you are selfish enough to put your selfishness before another person then you will have to answer to the man above. If you truly love and care about someone you will have hope that there will be a change in that persons health or condition, you don't just lose hope.

I may be saying this because i have never had to face such a situation but taking in to consideration what i have been through with a loved one passing away in hospital, i know that i never not even for a second lost hope even though her condition was getting worse by the day. I prayed for strength and the will to carry on and when God finally remembered her i said thank you that she is now in his care and at a better place. Which is why i can never understand why some people just give in without even thinking about the chances of that person waking up one day.

THERE'S ALWAYS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL...

The power of letting go

Sometimes holding on to something does more harm to you than you realise, letting go of something or someone that has a hold on you can never be easy or pain free but you will never know the end results until you actually take that step in the right direction. Just out of my personal experiences i have learnt that it is always hard to let go but you will never be happy if you keep on holding on to something or someone that keeps on weighing you down. The moment you decide to put yourself first an do what will make you happy and not the next person, you will start seeing change- good change.
This is just something that i wanted to share because i know i am not the only one who has a tendency of holding on to things that can never do any good in my life.

LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO LET GO SO YOU CAN SET YOURSELF FREE...

My love for RnB musuc

There is just something about RnB music that always touches my heart when i listen to it. I can't deny the fact that i am and always will be a sucker for love, hence my taste in music. Although i have noticed that the way RnB music use to be written back in the days is so much different today. I feel that RnB artists today are just righting music just to make money, there is no longer a true meaning behind the words. I have an endless number of favourite RnB artists and it gets me all excited just thinking about them cause of their music and the memories i have with these particular artists songs.

Brandy still rocks my world till this day but mostly with her old songs, I still find myself deep in though whenever i listen to her songs which in my books is a clear sign that they were definitely doing something right back in the days.

Songs like Come closer, Have you ever, Broken hearted, Truthfully By Brandy and the list goes on and on got me through a lot of things in my life and also bring back a whole lot of bitter sweet memories. Can't begin to express my love for this women.

I LOVE MY RNB MUSIC...