They say money can't buy you love

They say money can't buy you love, but yet that's what girls in this day and age still go after. I've had discussions with friends and none of them would date a "broke guy". How important is money in a relationship? and what comes first when you meet a guy? Is it so wrong to date someone who is a student just like yourself or a person who is unemployed like most students? I guess there are a lot of benefits that come with dating a guy with money, but what happens when he loses his job or he can't do the things that he does for you financially. Will you go out and find someone else?

In my opinion i believe that money in a relationship is just a bonus, it shouldn't be something that your relationship is based on cause then again money and material things are earthly things that we found here and like it or not we're going to leave on this earth. My advise would be for you to go for someone who you love despite the things that he has or doesn't have.

KEEP IT REAL LADIES...

          

Bad Habits

Why are bad habits so hard to drop?One of my bad habits are going into peoples messages especially on my other half's phone. I can't help it, the moment i get left alone in a room with his phone the first thing i do is go to his in box, then out box lol. I always feel bad after cause i wouldn't want him going through my phone while I'm not there.

There's a saying that goes "you shall find what your seeking for" and funny thing is I'm always looking for something bad, but never find anything. it's either this saying has to be rephrased or that day is still coming. Hmmm i just wonder #serious face#. I've tried so hard to stop but I always feel as if he's phone screams out my name when I look at it. I should get help, I'm sure that there's some kind of therapy for people suffering from this obsesion-right...

Cultural Myths

When my family found out that i was pregnant i was told not to involve too many people in my pregnancy. i was told not to tell a lot of people about it, not to tell people how far i am, the sex of the baby and not to go out at night. i was also told not to go to my boyfriends house and not to spend nights there. Sadly i have broken all those rules and now that I'm going to be giving birth soon it's got me thinking if there is any truth behind all the"myths" that i was told about. Maybe my gran is a bit old fashioned, or maybe careful cause now a days you don't know who your real friends are. Hmmm...i guess this will only be answered in a few months time. I hope i won't regret anything though. Crossing fingers and toes.

Self Respect

Things that happen in this day and age are really shocking. it's as if people don't care about the message they send through by the way that they act and how they do things. Dressing in some skimpy clothes and not minding how you carry yourself, showing things off that are supposed to be covered by clothing. I mean that's the only reason why clothes were made. So ladies respect yourself in order to get respect in return, if you don't do so then don't be surprised when people treat you with no respect.