MEET MY FIRST LOVE MERC

TALK ABOUT LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

Now I have always been a fan of Mercedes-Benz cars and it's for the obvious reasons, everyone that loves the brand as much as i do would know why but like everyone else I have my favourite. The Mercedes E-Class is just to die for. I just love the fact that it is a luxury,comfort and modern car, I can surely see myself in one of these Mercs. Don't get me started on the interior and the unique features, in my opinion BMW has nothing on Mercedes. Now this is what I call eye candy.

I like it for the E-Class...

Just my observation

Just one of the million things that puzzle me about the male species. I have noticed that men seem to me more interested in a women when she is in a relationship and sometimes even married, but isn't that just pushing it- i mean where do you thing it will end? nothing good can ever come out of a one sided relationship. I believe that a man who truely loves you will never want to share you, I mean every women want to be the ONE now why doesn't he want to be the king of your heart. He doesn't mind settling for 2nd best, now that should tell you about the mans hidden agendas. Guess some things will always remain a mystery when it comes to the male species.
CONFUSED FOR YEARS...

PURE STUPIDITY

IZIKHOTHANE is a very well known term used to describe a group of youngsters who come from very poor areas but for some reason thing that they are rich and can waste money as they please. Izikhothane is usually a group of teen age boys who come together every now and then to boast about their branded labels, the amount of money that they have, and the expensive drinks that they can afford. To my surprise as i was going though the Internet i noticed that young girls are also going into this stupid tradition. It is expected of you of boys to act in such a manner, but girls? I'm shocked, young girls should know better than to do such things. This all goes back to our up bringing, these young ladies are putting their mothers to shame and they should be ashamed of themselves as well.

A BRIBE FOR A PASS

It has become a norm for people to cough up extra money to get their drivers license, whether you can drive or not driving instructors demand a bribe in return for a definite pass. If you don't have the money you are destined for a fail. The bribe varies from R 1000- R 2000 sometimes even more. I remember when my driving instructor told me to bring R 1000 on the day of my practical test, i ask what would happen if i didn't and he laughed and said "you don't want your drivers license neh". I had heard people talking about this money that has to be paid for a pass but i thought it only applied to those who actually failed their test. This is becoming very common and normal even though we all know that it is wrong, but everyone wants their license at the end of the day. going to the driving school can become a drag, especially if you have other things to do. These people have to be named and shamed, WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO BEING PROFESSIONAL?

THE HEART

It is said that the heart sees what the eyes can't see, and feels what the mind can never feel. Which means we should be able to trust and rely on the decisions made by the heart. well judging from the things that i have been through i take it my heart is blind and sometimes has no feelings.

Must say that the heart plays a major part in everything that we do, but sometimes i wish i had a way of letting my mind take over instead of my heart making all of the decisions that sometimes turn out to be not so wise. I've heard a number of times that when ever you are in a good mood and listening to a song, you don't take much notice of the words, but when you are hurting you feel like you can relate to the words which makes you feel even more miserable. Well i blame the heart for these type of feelings that are a result of the choice that our hearts decided to make.

the heart is responsible for a lot of choices that we make, one being the people we choose to love. this isn't always a bad thing but becomes a problem when the people we choose to love try it right back in your face. Guess the heart isn't psychic but feels what it should be feeling at the time.

DESPITE ALL THE HURT AND PAIN I STILL LOVE MY HEART FOR THE PEOPLE WHO I AM HAPPY TO LOVE, BUT AT THE SAME TIME LOVE MY MIND FOR THE THINGS IT HAS OPENED MY EYES TO...

REFLECTING

One of my worst bad habits...

I've noticed that when I'm at my happiest i tend to forget about the people that are always there to be a shoulder to cry on, and when I'm at my lowest three people always come into mind because they have a way of always putting a smile on my face even when there's tears in my eyes. Two of the guys have told me about this habit of mine but i never really took it to heart until the one guy passed away and now it's as if his words are haunting me.

We all have bad habits but it's not always easy to change more especially when you are not aware of them. My pledge to my late friend George is that I'm going to work on this habit of mine and start appreciating my two remaining "bosom" friend Lunga and Ayanda.

I am lucky to know one of my worst bad habits that could lead to me losing the people closets to my heart, it's time you reflect on your life and maybe ask the people closest to you to tell you what they don't like about you and maybe you can start working on it before time runs out.

May your soul rest in peace George, you've always been good to me even thought it took your passing away for me to realise how special you really are.